Friend: hey, you know wat my name means? it is actually given by a nun... "song" means to loosen, and "yew", in chinese, means something like prison, or something binding...
Friend: the whole name means something like learn to give up... in fact, the nun says tat in my life, I am sort of stubborn....(a bit like fortune telling), but she wanna me to learn to give up sometimes, to be happy...
It then suddenly occured to me:
Thomas: you know my name diwei... "di" means emperor, and "wei" is a very enduring plant...
Heh, I guess my name speaks for my decision.